Dating Advice

5 Essentials for Finding Your Soulmate

5. Know What You Want

Couple_14144306530_m5. Know What You Want

You may be surprised at how many people rant and rave about what they think they deserve, but don’t know what they want.  Some people go as far as creating a list of their likes and dislikes, and create a person from the list.  When you know what you are looking for from a person, the search for your soulmate is 50 percent easier.

4. Find What You Want

Finding what you want can be more complex than knowing what you want.  Many people find their soulmate online through social media and chat sites.  The internet makes finding your true love a little easier, but you have to know where to look.  You have thousands of social media sites and dating sites to choose from.  You may have to go through a few of these sites to find some that you like, but it can be done.  you never know who’s out there until you try to find them.

3. Be Specific, yet Reasonable

Being specific is one of the greatest things you can be.  When you know what you want, and how to get it, there is no stopping your success of finding your true love.  Many people confuse being specific with being picky.  There is no need to be picky about who you want in your life, especially since you are planning to spend the rest of your life with them.  Make it count!

2. Set Standards

A lot of people are afraid to set standards because they feel they will never find someone who can fit their perfect mold of a person.  The truth is, you will never find a person who is equipped with every little thing you want out of a person, but they can come close.  Your standards are what sets the record for the person you date.  You may want to find someone who does not have children or someone who has never been married.  Your standards are personal and customized to what you want.  Don’t let anyone tell you your standards are wrong.  You set your standards according to what you want out of a relationship.

1. NEVER Settle

One of the worst things in the world you can do in the dating situation is settle.  If you settle, you are doomed to be miserable for the rest of your life, and this is certainly not the way to find your soulmate.  It is true that you will never find the perfect person, but there is a difference between compromising and settling.  Everyone has flaws, even you, but a compromise is something you can live with.  It’s a give and take situation.  Settling is simply you being in a relationship just to say you are in one.  Don’t do it!

 

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